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1Berly
Edited: Dec 13, 3:54 am



Hi. I'm Kim and I've been on LT since 2008. Happily married for over 30 years, I'm a mom of 3, one of them married, and we all live in Oregon. I have an eclectic work history: nerve regeneration research at Boston Children's Hospital; advertising account exec; editor and writer (Milkweed Editions and Portland Parent Magazine); MN Timberwolves Community Relation Mgr and 501C3 Account Exec; accounting, client acquisition and website development for Clarus (a water cleaning company my Husband started here in Portland); Business and HR Mgr for a Montessori school and I am now a Dyslexia Tutor! Also, I am a third degree Black Belt in Taekwondo. And I am on two Advisory Councils for Literary Arts here in Portland. I read almost everything, although I lean towards Fiction. Portland Tree Lighting -- Happy Holidays!!

2Berly
Edited: Dec 27, 2:50 pm



So many choices!! What should I read?
Reading Now
@ The Answer Is No (K 68 pages) by Frederick Backman
@ The Ghost Cat (B 265 pages) by Alex Howard
How Music Works (B 383 pages) by David Byrne
@ Overcoming Dyslexia (B 596 pages) by Sally Shaywitz, MD

Ideas/Next...
@ To & Fro (B 416 pages) by Leah Hager Cohen
@ The Library of Borrowed Hearts (B 347 pages) by Lucy Gilmore
@ How to Live Safely in a Science Fictional Universe (B 239 pages) by Charles Yu
The Body (B 452 pages) by Bill Bryson

Source
✔ = Off the shelf (not acquired this year)
L = Library
↩ = Reread
@ = Acquired this year
✗ = DNF
? = Need to get
IR = Indiespensable Readers
ER = LibraryThing Early Reviewer

Media
B = Printed Book
🎧 = Audio
K = Kindle
GN = Graphic Novel

3Berly
Edited: Dec 27, 2:48 pm



Read in December ?? pages / ?? 🎧 hours
2024 Total ?? pages / ?? 🎧 hours
100. @ The Christmas Book Hunt (🎧 3.5 hours) by Jenny Colgan
99. ✔ On Such A Full Sea (🎧 8/11 hours) by Chang-Rae Lee DNF
98. @ Drop Dead Sisters (K 255 pages) by Amelia Diane Coombs DNF
❤️ @Backfired: The Vaping Wars (🎧 7.5 hours) by Leon Neyfakh 4.5
❤️ @Sociopath (🎧 11 hours) by Patric Gagne PhD 4.5
95. @Stalking Around the Christmas Tree (🎧 9 hours) by Jacqueline Frost 3.75
94. @Slashing Through the Snow (🎧 8.25 hours) by Jacqueline Frost 3.0
93. @Verity (🎧 10.25 hours) by Colleen Hoover 3.5
92. @ The Anti-Heroes (K 247 pages) by Jen Lancaster DNF

Read in November 1,685 pages / 21.75 🎧 hours
2024 Total 6,008 pages / 503.25 🎧 hours
91. @ Nobody's Perfect (K 333 pages) by Sally Kilpatrick 3.0
❤️ @ Reminders of Him (🎧 10.25 hours) by Colleen Hoover 4.0
89. @ Raised by Wolves (B 347 pages) by James Patterson 4.5
88. @ In Five Years (B 251 pages) by Rebecca Serle 3.75
87. @ Finding Mr. Write (K 362 pages) by Kelly Armstrong 4.0
❤️ @ Backfired: Attention Deficit (🎧 5.5 hours) by Leon Neyfakh & Prologue Projects 4.0
85. @ From Here to the Great Unknown (🎧 6 hours) by Lisa Marie Presley 4.5
84. @ Deeper Than the Dead (K 392 pages) by Deborah Webb 3.5

Read in October 349 pages / 76 🎧 hours
2024 Total 4,323 pages / 481.5 🎧 hours
83. @ Never Been Witched (🎧 10.25 hours) by Molly Harper 3.5
83. @ Big Witch Energy (🎧 10 hours) by Molly Harper 3.75
82. @ Classics of Horror: Frankenstein, Dracula, Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde (🎧 3 hours)by James Krasner 4.0
81. @ Witches Get Stuff Done (🎧 8.5 hours) by Molly Harper 3.25
❤️ ↩ Frankenstein (🎧 8.5 hours)by Mary Shelley 4.0
79. @ The Librarianist (B 349 pages) by Patrick DeWitt 2.75
❤️ L Think Twice (🎧 9.75 hours) by Harlan Coben 4.0
77. @ First Frost (🎧 10 hours) by Craig Johnson 3.0
❤️ @ Somewhere Beyond the Sea (🎧 16 hours) by TJ Kline 4.0

Read in September 667 pages / 21.25 🎧 hours
2024 Total 3,974 pages / 405.5 🎧 hours
❤️ @ James by Percival Everett (B 305 pages) 5.0
(retelling of The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn)
74. @ Our Missing Hearts (🎧 10 hours) by Celeste Ng 3.5
73. @ Finding Mr. Write (K 362 pages) by Kelly Armstrong 3.25
72. @I Can't Make This Up (🎧 11.25 hours)by Kevin Hart 3.9

Read in August 473 pages / 44 🎧 hours
2024 Total 3,307 pages / 384.25 🎧 hours
❤️ @ The Woods (🎧 12.5 hours) by Harlan Coben 4.0
70. @ In Any Lifetime (K 319 pages) by Marc Guggenheim 3.75
69. L I is for Innocent (🎧 9 hours) by Sue Grafton 3.5
68. @ Day of the Iguana (B 154 pages) by Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver 3.5
67. @ Six Years (🎧 10.5 hours) by Harlan Coben 3.5
❤️ ↩ Parable of the Sower (🎧 12 hours) by Octavia Butler 4.0

Read in July 937 pages / 44 🎧 hours
2024 Total 2,834 pages / 340.25 🎧 hours
65. L House on the Endless Waters (B 100/309 pages) by Emuna Elon DNF
64. @ I got a "D" in Salami (B 169 pages) by Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver 3.5
63. @ Niagara Falls, or Does It? (B 137 pages) by Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver 3.5
62. @ A Little Ray of Sunshine (🎧 15.5 hours)by Kristan Higgins 3.0
61. @ Now That You Mention It (🎧 11 hours) by Kristan Higgins 3.5
❤️ ✔ Interior Chinatown (B 266 pages) by Charles Yu 4.0
59. L "H" is for Homicide (🎧 8.5 hoursby Sue Grafton 3.5
58. @ Twas The Knife Before Christmas (🎧 9 hours)by Jacqueline Frost 4.0
57. @ Broken Bayou (K 265 pages) by Jennifer Moorhead 3.5

Ratings
❤️ Favorite(s) of the month
Loved it! 5.0
Really Good 4.0
Good 3.0
Hmmmm 2.0
Don't Bother 1.0

Source
IR = Indiespensable Readers
LT = LibraryThing Early Reviewer
✔ = Off the shelf (not acquired this year)
L = Library
↩ = Reread
@ = Acquired this year
✗ = DNF
? = Need to get

Media
B = Printed Book
🎧 = Audio
K = Kindle
GN = Graphic Novel

4Berly
Edited: Sep 22, 3:19 pm

Read in June 1,897 pages / 36 🎧 hours
2024 Total 8,399 pages / 296.25 🎧 hours
56. L Let Us Descend: A Novel (K 316 pages) by Jesmyn Ward 3.0
55. @ Dear Sister (🎧 9 hours) by Ruth Harrow 3.0
54. L Everyone on This Train is a Suspect (K 335 pages) by Benjamin Stevenson 3.75
53. ✔ Lore Olympus (GN 384 pages) by Rachel Smythe 3.0
52. L Broken (In the Best Possible Way) (🎧8.5 hours) by Jenny Lawson 4.0
51. @ Night Watching (B 351 pages) by Tracy Sierra 3.0
❤️ @ Life's Too Short (🎧 9 hours) by Abby Jimenez 4.5
49. @ The Friend Zone (🎧 9.5 hours) by Abby Jimenez 3.5
48. @ The Curious Secrets of Yesterday (K 281 pages) by Namrata Patel 3.0
47. L The End of Mr Y (K 125/511 pages) Scarlett Thomas - DNF
❤️ @ The Heaven and Earth Grocery Store (B 385 pages/🎧 12.5 hrs) James McBride 4.5

Read in May 537 pages / 21.5 🎧 hours
2024 Total 6,502 pages / 260.25 🎧 hours
45. @ Yours Truly (🎧 11.5 hours) by Abby Jimenez 4.0
❤️ @ Part of Your World (🎧 10 hours) by Abby Jimenez 4.5
43. @ Fugitive Telemetry (🎧 4.5 hours) by Martha Wells 3.0
42. @ Moranifesto ( 🎧 10.5 hours) by Caitlin Moran 3.25
41. @ My Favorite Terrible Thing (K 285 pages) by Madeleine Henry 3.0
40. @ The Wolves at the Door (B 252 pages) by Judith Pearson 3.5

Read in April 1,222 pages / 38.75 🎧 hours
2024 Total 5,965 pages / 238.75 🎧 hours
39. ✔ The Inmate (K 388 pages) by Freida McFadden 3.0
38. @ A Murder to Remember (🎧 10 hours) by Brynn Kelly 3.5
❤️ ✔ No Time To Spare (B 215 page) by Ursala K. LeGuin 4.5
❤️ L Inferno (🎧 17.25 hours) by Dan Brown 4.0
35. @ A Wizard of Earthsea (B 299 pages) by Ursula K. Le Guin 3.5
34. @ Hypnotized by Love (K 295 pages) by Sariah Wilson 3.0
33. @ Lovers at the Museum (K 25 pages) short story by Isabel Allende 3.0
32. @ The Murder House (🎧 11.5 hours) by James Patterson 3.5

5Berly
Edited: Dec 27, 2:52 pm

Read in March 1,206 pages / 72.75 🎧 hours
2024 Total 4,743 pages / 200 🎧 hours
❤️ @ Just for the Summer (🎧 11.75 hours) by Abby Jimenez 5.0
30. @ The Bad Weather Friend (K 374 pages) by Dean Koontz 4.0
29. L Another Man's Moccasins (🎧 9 hours) by Craig Johnson 3.0
❤️ L Monsters: A Fan's Dilemma (K 285 pages) by Claire Dederer 4.5
27. L Ghosts (🎧 10.25 hours) by Dolly Alderton 3.0
26. ✔ The Lost Journals of Sacajewea (B 249 pages) Debra Magpie Earling 2.75
25. @ The Promise You Made (🎧 7.5 hours) by AJ McDine 3.5
24. @ The Running Grave (🎧 34.25 hours) by Robert Gailbraith 3.5
23. L The Vanderbeekers of 141st Street (B 298 pages) by Karina Yan Glaser 4.0

Read in February 2,837 pages / 51 🎧 hours
2024 Total 3,537 pages / 127.25 🎧 hours
22. @ Black Cake (B 401 pages) by Charmaine Wilkerson 3.75
21. ✔ One Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich (🎧 4.25 hours) Alexander Solzhenitsyn 4.0
20. @ Dr. Anderson's Nanny (B 227 pages) by Amy Hahn 2.75
19. ✔ The Heart's Invisible Furies (B 580 pages) by John Boyne 3.8
❤️ ✔ Anne Frank:The Diary of a Young Girl (🎧 11 hours, Selma Blair) Anne Frank 5.0
17. @ Moriarty: The silent Order (🎧 5 hours) by Charles Kindinger 4.0
16. ✔ Moriarty: The Devil's Game (🎧 4.5 hours) by Charles Kindinger 4.5
15. Last Night (K 319 pages) by Luanne Rice 3.5
14. @ Shutter (B 300 pages) by Ramona Emerson 3.5
❤️ @ The Measure (🎧 11 hours) by Nikki Erlick 4.5
❤️ @ Iona Iverson's Rules for Commuting (K 352 pages) by Clare Pooley 4.5
11. @ The Bee Sting (K 658 pages) by Paul Murray 2.75
10. @ Stay Close (🎧 11 hours) by Harlan Coben 3.5

Read in January 700 pages / 76.25 🎧 hours
2024 Total 700 pages / 76.25 🎧 hours
9. L Chenneville (B 307 pages) by Juliette Jiles 4.0
❤️ @ Deaf Utopia (🎧 11 hours) by Nyle DiMarco 4.25
7. @ Cormoran Strike Series #6 The Ink Black Heart (🎧 33 hours) by Robert Galbraith 3.5
❤️ ✔ What To Say Next (B 293 pages) by Julie Buxbaum 5.0
5. @ Exit Strategy Murderbot #4 (🎧 4 hours) by Martha Wells - 4.0
4. ✔ Fight Night (B 100/251 pages) by Miriam Toews - DNF
❤️ @ Yellowface (🎧 8.5 hours) by R.F. Kuang 4.5
2. ✔ Tom Lake by (🎧 11.5 hours) Ann Patchett, read by Meryl Streep 4.0
1. ✔ Twelve Slays of Christmas (🎧 8.25 hours) by Jacqueline Frost 3.5

6Berly
Edited: Sep 22, 3:25 pm



Berly's Best of 2023
Mad Honey by Jodi Picoult and Jennifer Finney Boylan
An Immense World: How Animal Senses Reveal the Hidden Realms Around Us by Ed Yong
All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr
Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir
Horse by Geraldine Brooks
Through My Eyes by Ruby Bridges (Children's Book)
Demon Copperhead Barbara Kingsolver
Stone Blind by Natalie Haynes
Roadkill by Dennis E. Taylor
The House of Doors by Tan Twan Eng
A Carnival of Snackery by David Sedaris

7Berly
Edited: Dec 27, 9:25 pm



I can't resist buying books!!
I seem to manage to read around 50% of my newbies, except in 2019 where I (ahem) added a few more books to my collection than normal. But I killed it in 2020 when I read almost 75% of my newbies and in 2022 I read 70%!!

2017 47/85
2018 45/88
2019 45/128
2020 78/103
2021 50/105
2022 54/77
2023 56/88

Let's see how I do this year...

2024 45/68 Read
The Bee Sting by Paul Murray
Yellowface by R.F. Huang
Last Night by Luanne Rice *
The Bad Weather Friend by Dean Koontz *
Black Cake by Charmaine Wilkerson (From Hil) *
Exit Strategy by Martha Wells *
✅ Cormoran Strike Series #6 The Ink Black Heart by Robert Galbraith
Deaf Utopia by Nyle DiMarco *
Stay Close by Harlan Coben *
10. Not That Bad by Roxanne Gay (From BLBera) *
Dr. Anderson's Nanny by Amy Hahn (From BLBera) *
Wizard of Earthsea by Ursala LeGuin
The Measure by Nikki Erlick
Shutter by Ramona Emerson *
Iona Iverson's Rules for Commuting by Clare Pooley
Hypnotized by Love by Sariah Wilson *
17. River of Darkness by Rennie Airth *
Moriarty: The Devil's Game by Charles Kindinger *
Moriarty: The Silent Order by Charles Kindinger *
20. World of Wonders by Aimee Nezhukumatathil *
Interior Chinatown by Charles Yu *
22. Heading North by Holly M. Wendt * (Thank you Stasia)
23. The Echo Wife by Sarah Gailey (Thank you Rhonda) *
24. How to Live Safely in a Science Fictional Universe by Charles Yu
Lovers at the Museum short story by Isabel Allende *
26. The Lies Among Us by Sarah Beth Durst *
The Promise You Made by AJ McDine
✅ Cormoran Strike Series #7 The Running Grave by Robert Gailbraith
The Wolves at the Door by Judith L Pearson
30. The Devil's Element by Dan Egan *
31. Overcoming Dyslexia by Sally Shaywitz, MD
A Murder to Remember by Brynn Kelly *
The Inmate by Freida McFadden *
Moranifesto by Caitlin Moran *
My Favorite Terrible Thing by Madeleine Henry *
Night Watching by Tracy Sierra *
Just for the Summer by Abby Jimenez *
Life's Too Short by Abby Jimenez
The Heaven and Earth Grocery Store by James McBride
The Curious Secrets of Yesterday by Namrata Patel
41. To & Fro by Leah Hager Cohen
Twas The Knife Before Christmas by Jacqueline Frost *
Broken Bayou by Jennifer Moorhead *
Dear Sister by Ruth Harrow
The Friend Zone by Abby Jimenez
In Any Lifetime by Marc Guggenheim *
47. Deeper Than the Dead by Debra Webb *
A Little Ray of Sunshine by Kristin Higgins *
Now That You Mention It by Kristin Higgins *
Our Missing Hearts by Celeste Ng
I got a "D" in Salami by Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver *
Niagara Falls, or Does It? by Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver *
Day of the Iguana by Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver *
54. The Zippity zinger by Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver *
55. The Night I Flunked My Field Trip by Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver *
56. Holy Enchilada by Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver *
57. Help! Someone Get Me Out Of Fourth Grade! by Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver *
58. Summer School! What Genius Thought That Up? by Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver *
James by Percival Everett
Six Years by Harlan Coben *
60. The Gift of Aging by Marcy Cottrell Houle & Elizabeth Eckstrom
62. The Horse by Willy Vlautin
I Can't Make This Up by Kevin Hart
64. The Ghost Cat by Alex Howard
65. My Friends by Hisham Matar
Finding Mr. Write by Kelly Armstrong
First Frost by Craig Johnson *
The Librarianist by Patrick DeWitt *

✅ Read
* Free or gift

8Berly
Edited: Dec 19, 2:27 pm



LT Reads
✅ Jan - The Vaster Wilds by Lauren Groff with Beth and Ellen
✅ Feb - Chenneville by Paulette Jiles with Beth and Ellen
✅ Feb - The Bee Sting by Paul Murray with Mark and Others
✅ Feb - The Hearts Invisible Furies by John Boyne with Stasia
✅ March - The Lost Journals of Sacajewea Debra Magpie Earling with Beth and Ellen
March - Killers of the Flower Moon by David Grann (Watch movie)
✅ April - Monster: A Fan's Dilemma by Claire Dederer with Ellen and Beth
✅ June - The End of Mr Y Scarlett Thomas with Ellen and Beth
X June - The Known World by Edward P Jones with Ellen, Bill (WeirdO), Judy, Katie, Jim (MagiciansNephew), Judy (ffortsa)
✅ July - House on Endless Waters by Emunah Elon with Ellen and Beth
✅ September - Let Us Descend by Jasmyn Ward with Beth and Ellen
October - How Music Works by David Byrne with Stasia
November - My Friends by Hisham Matar with Beth and Ellen
December - The Mighty Red by Louise Erdrich with Ellen and Beth

Literary Arts 24/25
October 9, 2024 - Amy Tan
November 19, 2024 - Abraham Verghese
January 16, 2025 - Timothy Egan
February 13, 2025 - Masha Gessen
April 15, 2025 - Emily Watson

RL Book Club #1 2025
February Drive Your Plow Over Your Dead Bones by Olga Tokarczuk
April The Gift of Aging by Mary Houle/Elizabeth Eckstrom
June The Women by Kristin Hannah
August This is Happiness by Niall Williams
October How to Say Baylon by Safiya Sinclair

New RL Book Club #2 2025
January True Grit by Charles Portis

And Honorable Mentions
The Transgender Issue by Shon Faye
Here One Moment by Lianne Moriarty
The Physics of Everyday Things James Kakalios
Crying in H-Mart Michelle Zauner
Covenant of Water by Abraham Verghese
Hello Beautiful Ann Napolitano
Spare Prince Harry

9Berly
Edited: Sep 22, 3:33 pm



I am going to try and keep track of series I am currently enjoying here:

Series/Author/Next Book
A Royal Spyness Mystery // Rhys Bowen // #2 A Royal Pain
Bobiverse / Dennis E. Taylor / #5 not yet published
Bridgerton / Julia Quinn / #3 An Offer From A Gentleman
Commisario Brunetti by Donna Leon / read 1,2,4,8 next #3 The Anonymous Venetian
Cormoran Strike Series / Robert Galbraith / #8 ??
Elizabeth Cage / Jodi Taylor #4 ???
Finley O'Sullivan / Debra Webb #3 All the Little Truths
In Death Series / JD Robb / Naked in Death #1 (I have been reading out of order)
Kinsey Millhone Mystery Series / Sue Grafton / Read ABCDEFGQX / Next H
Kopp Series / Amy Stewart / #2 Lady Cop Makes Trouble
Mickey Bolitar / Harlen Coben / #4 not yet published
Murderbot Diaries / Martha Wells / #5 Fugitive Telemetry
Quantum Earth / Dennis E. Taylor / #3 ??
Sandham Murders / Viveca Sten / #11 not yet published
Sunshine Vicram / Darynda Jones / #4 ??
Sweep Series / Ilona Andrews / #6 not yet published
The Åre Murders / Viveca Sten / #2 Hidden in Shadows Dec '23
The Chronicles of St Mary's / Jodi Taylor / #7
The Christmas Tree Farm Mysteries / Jacqueline Frost / #2
The Time Police / Jodi Taylor #5 ???, Santa Grit 4.5
The Thursday Murder Club / Richard Osman / #3 The Bullet That Missed
Walt Longmire / Craig Johnson / Junkyard Dogs

10Berly
Edited: Sep 22, 3:34 pm



Hubby signed me up for The Indispensable Reader collection from Powell's. (Thank you!!). Over the years I have received over 90 installments (some with two or three books), and I haven't read all the books yet. Not even close!

Possibilities??
Silas Marner by George Eliot (a classic with a new afterward)
Running the Rift by Naomi Benson (Stasia really liked it)
The Listeners by Leni Zumas
How Music Works by David Byrne
A Constellation of Vital Phenomena by Anthony Marra
The Empathy Exams by Leslie Jamison
The New & Improved Romie Futch by Julia Elliott
A Girl is a Body of Water by Jennifer Nansubuga Makumbi

The complete list can be found here --

https://www.librarything.com/topic/336987#n7662792

11Berly
Edited: Sep 22, 3:36 pm



You know, in case I need more ideas for books to read!

Total Read - 47
✅ 2023 - Demon Copperhead
2023 - Trust (Diaz)
2022 - The Netanyahus
* 2021 - The Night Watchman
✅ 2020 - The Nickel Boys
✅ 2019 - The Overstory
✅ 2018 - Less
✅ 2017 - Underground Railroad
* 2016 - The Sympathizer
✅ 2015 - All the Light We Cannot See
✅ 2014 - The Goldfinch
✅ 2013 - The Orphan Master's Son
✅ 2012 - NO AWARD - Swamplandia - Nominee
✅ 2011 - A Visit from the Goon Squad
✅ 2010 - Tinkers
✅ 2009 - Olive Kitterridge
✅ 2008 - The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao
✅ 2007 - The Road
2006 - March
✅ 2005 - Gilead
2004 - The Known World
✅ 2003 - Middlesex
✅ 2002 - Empire Falls
✅ 2001 - The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay
✅ 2000 - The Interpreter of Maladies
✅ 1999 - The Hours
1998 - American Pastoral
✅ 1997 - Martin Dressler: The Tale of an American Dreamer
1996 - Independence Day
✅ 1995 - The Stone Diaries
✅ 1994 - The Shipping News
1993 - A Good Scent from a Strange Mountain
✅ 1992 - A Thousand Acres
1991 - Rabbit at Rest
1990 - The Mambo Kings
✅ 1989 - Breathing Lessons
✅ 1988 - Beloved
✅ 1987 - A Summons to Memphis
✅ 1986 - Lonesome Dove
1985 - Foreign Affairs
1984 - Ironweed
✅ 1983 - The Color Purple
1982 - Rabbit is Rich
✅ 1981 - A Confederacy of Dunces
✅ 1980 - The Executioner's Song
1979 - The Stories of John Cheever
1978 - Elbow Room
✅ 1977 - NO AWARD
✅ 1976 - Humboldt's Gift
1975 - The Killer Angels
✅ 1974 - NO AWARD
1973 - The Optimist's Daughter
✅ 1972 - Angle of Repose
✅ 1971 - NO AWARD
1970 - The Collected Stories of Jean Stafford
1969 - House Made of Dawn
* 1968 - The Confessions of Nat Turner
1967 - The Fixer
1966 - The Collected Stories of Katherine Anne Porter
1965 - The Keepers of the House
✅ 1964 - NO AWARD
1963 - The Reivers
1962 - The Edge of Sadness
✅ 1961 - To Kill a Mockingbird
1960 - Advise and Consent
1959 - The Travels of Jaimie McPheeters
1958 - A Death in the Family
✅ 1957 - NO AWARD
1956 - Andersonville
1955 - A Fable
✅ 1954 - NO AWARD
✅ 1953 - The Old Man and the Sea
✅ 1952 - The Caine Mutiny
1951 - The Town
1950 - The Way West
1949 - Guard of Honor
✅ 1948 - Tales of the South Pacific
✅ 1947 - All the King's Men
✅ 1946 - NO AWARD
1945 - A Bell
1944 - Journey in the Dark
1943 - Dragon's Teeth
1942 - In This Our Life
✅ 1941 - NO AWARD
✅ 1940 - The Grapes of Wrath
1928 - The Bridge of San Luis Rey

* Have on hand
✅ Read

12Berly
Edited: Sep 22, 3:36 pm



Please join us if you are interested in Reusing and Recycling. People are sharing brand and book suggestions and also keeping track of their efforts. Check it out!

https://www.librarything.com/topic/339326

Below is my personal list of what I am doing and want to be doing. I plan to keep updating this as I make improvements in my lifestyle this year. Brands listed are my choices and more suggestions are listed in the above thread.

Things I was already doing
*Carry reusable shopping bags
*Reuse packaging and don't overwrap (I have a whole closet of boxes and packing material I recycle)
*Use recyclable paper and cardboard instead of styrofoam packing material
*Buy my veggies in cardboard crates instead of plastic containers whenever possible
*Use a home soda maker with reusable bottle
*Dishwasher detergent -- Planet
*Silicone and beeswax dish toppers/wraps
*Garbage Bags -- Seventh Generation
*Compost Collector under sink that goes into city Compost Bin
*Cloth Napkins
*Wider comfort range for heating and cooling house
*Motion detectors on lights to keep them off when not in use
*Keeping a reusable water bottle and cup in the car
*And a reusable utensil kit in my glove compartment
*And a reusable metal straw
*Phone Case -- Switched to compostable case by Pela
*Toilet Paper -- Who Gives A Crap (recycled) Grove (bamboo)
*Laundry Detergent sheets -- TruEarth
*Cloth "Paper" Towels -- Marley's Monsters
*Recycled Paper Towels -- Who Gives A Crap
*Sponges compostable -- If You Care
*Scrub Cloths cotton and cellulose -- Down to Earth Basics
*Blueland Toilet Bowl Cleaner--works great!! https://www.blueland.com/products/toilet-cleaner-starter-set

Next steps
*Transitioning from liquid soap, shower gels and shampoo to solid versions not packaged in plastic. This one may be a bit harder for me with my skin allergies, but I am going to try. I am using up what I have left and then I will try to make the switch.
*Toothpaste
*Composter -- outside
*Ridwell for recycling things



450 years for a plastic bottle to break down in the ocean
114* years since first plastic was invented
90 percent of seabirds have plastic in their stomachs
80 percent of plastic in the ocean originates on land
59* years since the first plastic bag was created
1 rubbish truck of plastics enters the ocean every minute
We typically use a plastic bag for less than 15 minutes
Most tampons have plastic in them
*(+5 years since publication)


How to Give Up Plastic by Will McCallum. Awesome book!! Read it!

13Berly
Edited: Sep 22, 3:46 pm



So, on the job front...

So, I am up to 8 students ages 6-17 and 50/50 boys and girls. Still using tiles for some of them, but the upper levels use an iPad version of Barton called Whizzimo. I am also full-time on Zoom for one student. We have moved to the fall schedule so I am tutoring from 2-6 M-Th and a Zoom meeting twice weekly at noon. Leaves me my mornings to get stuff done at home. Loving the staff and the kids. I am training for level 4 online and in-person with my tutor tomorrow. This covers spelling rules, like "C" makes the sound /s/ when followed by watchout vowels i, e and y. I am feeling very lucky right now! : )

14Berly
Edited: Sep 22, 3:44 pm

15richardderus
Sep 22, 3:22 pm

I hope you're not adding anything new, Kimmers, cause here I am saying "New thread orisons!"

16Berly
Sep 22, 3:28 pm

Nope. I reserved all my spaces!! Thanks for the warm welcome. Smooch.

17Berly
Sep 22, 3:49 pm



Brunch at Cheryl's restaurant with LT friends!! Roni, me, Juli, Lynda, Reba, Ellen and Chris.

18Berly
Edited: Sep 22, 3:54 pm

I was good and got credit for my used books at Powell's and then promptly spent it all! LOL

My Friends by Hisham Matar and The Ghost Cat by Alex Howard. : )

19EllaTim
Sep 22, 5:12 pm

Happy new thread! Congratulations on your new books, and happy reading.

20charl08
Sep 22, 5:46 pm

Happy new thread. Great meet up pic. One day I will get back to Powell's! What a wonderful shop.

21elorin
Sep 22, 6:01 pm

Happy New Thread!

22Berly
Sep 22, 7:08 pm

>19 EllaTim: Hi there! And thank you.

>20 charl08: Powell's is indeed wonderful! And dangerous for the wallet! I was good this time. : )

>21 elorin: Thank you! And nice to see you here.

23SuziQoregon
Sep 22, 7:14 pm

>17 Berly: So fun to see everyone!!! Love our meetups.

24PaulCranswick
Sep 22, 7:28 pm

Happy new thread, Kimmers and thank you for sharing that lovely meet-up photo.

25jessibud2
Sep 22, 8:01 pm

Happy new thread, Kim. Great meetup pic!

26figsfromthistle
Sep 22, 8:10 pm

>17 Berly: wow! What a great turnout.

Happy new thread!

27drneutron
Sep 22, 9:13 pm

Happy new thread!

28quondame
Sep 22, 11:20 pm

Happy new thread Kim!

29BLBera
Sep 22, 11:23 pm

Happy new thread. Great meet up photo.

30weird_O
Sep 23, 8:47 am

Looks like I'm in for a gloomy day. I'm hoping it will brighten up. You've got a bright start on this new thread, so I'll take that to brighten my spirits. I'm almost done with my bookcase project and with my read of On Juneteenth by Annette Gordon-Reed. I'll finish the book, then work on shelves.

Have a good day!

31LizzieD
Sep 23, 11:47 am

Happy New Thread, Kim! I'm glad that you made good use of you Powell credits. It's the thing to do!

I'll ask you the reading question I have in mind when I hear young women speaking........ If their children learn to say "our neeshin, the U Ass A," are they going to be confused when they learn that a long A is pronounced ay or a short e+ss is pronounced ehs?" (Just one example among hundreds) What do you think?

Enjoy your day!

32Berly
Sep 23, 12:23 pm

>23 SuziQoregon: It is always fun and I think we are lucky to have such a large number of members who show up at our get-togethers. : )

>24 PaulCranswick: Thank you, Paul! Lots of fun and the conversation never lagged!

>25 jessibud2: Hi there! Thank you. I have to go check people's threads and see what books they got.

33Berly
Sep 23, 12:26 pm

>26 figsfromthistle: We are lucky to have so many members live so close by. : ) And there were even a few who couldn't make this meetup!

>27 drneutron: Thanks, Doc! Space stuff has been interesting lately. I hope everyone gets to come home soon. Spring is a long way off.

>28 quondame: It wouldn't be much of a thread if I didn't have visitors like you -- thanks for stopping by!

34Berly
Sep 23, 12:34 pm

>29 BLBera: Hi TwinB! Wish you could have been here, too. xoxo

>30 weird_O: Wishing you success with the bookcase!! I know you need it. ; ) And I hope by gloomy you only mean your weather. Sending bright thoughts your way.

>31 LizzieD: Yes, explaining letter sounds becomes even more confusing when factoring in regional accents. The program is based off how national news anchors talk, LOL. Right now I am leaning about what is called "schwa" -- that's when vowel + L makes the /ul/ sound no matter the vowel. Or another schwa is when closed A or O in unaccented syllable makes the /u/ sound. English is so complicated!

35thornton37814
Sep 23, 7:11 pm

Sounds like you had a nice meetup at Powell's.

36msf59
Sep 23, 7:22 pm

Happy New Thread, Kimmers. Love the Meet Up pic. I miss this group. Was Rhonda out of town? We did our own Meet Up, last Friday.

37SirThomas
Sep 24, 7:17 am

Happy New Thread, Kim. A meetup and a lovely picture - wonderful!

38AMQS
Sep 24, 11:18 am

Hi Kim! LOVE the meet up pic! How wonderful!

39ffortsa
Edited: Sep 24, 6:11 pm

Kim, if I get assigned a student in October (or more likely November), I may be teaching the same phonics that you are, though most likely to non-dyslexic kids. It makes me think I should go back and shadow my friend the reading teacher again, and more often.

English is certainly confusing. If I could remember the pronunciation rules in French, it would be easier that our own native language. But then, it IS our language and our brains have gotten used to it!

p.s. That's quite a busy schedule you have!

40PaulCranswick
Sep 24, 8:50 pm

>39 ffortsa: I couldn't agree more, Judy. English is a frustrating medium but I love it to bits!

41atozgrl
Sep 26, 4:40 pm

Happy new thread, Kim!

42Ravenwoodwitch
Sep 26, 5:19 pm

Happy new thread Kim!

43banjo123
Sep 29, 9:13 pm

Happy new thread! Lovely meet-up picture---hopefully I will see you all soon.

44PawsforThought
Sep 30, 5:16 am

Happy new thread, Kim! Looks like you had a really good time at the meet-up.

45foggidawn
Sep 30, 1:05 pm

Happy new thread!

46vancouverdeb
Sep 30, 11:46 pm

Happy New Thread, Kim! I hope you enjoy My Friends. I really did like it. 4.5 stars. Great meet up photo! How I am I so late to get to your thread ?

47richardderus
Oct 2, 2:42 pm

drive-by *smooch*

48johnsimpson
Oct 2, 5:00 pm

Hi Kim my dear, Happy New Thread dear friend.

49figsfromthistle
Oct 3, 7:19 am

Dropping in to say hello. Hope all is well

50RebaRelishesReading
Oct 3, 11:48 am

Wow -- very late with this but "Happy New Thread". Hope your week is going well.

51witchyrichy
Oct 7, 10:27 am

Late but better than never, I suppose! Happy new thread! Hope all is well.

52Ameise1
Oct 8, 2:07 pm

I'm way behind. Happy new one, Kim. I love the meet-up photo.

53The_Hibernator
Edited: Oct 14, 1:44 pm

Happy new thread, Kim!

ETA: The plan now is to come to Oregon for spring break. Maybe this time will happen. 🤷‍♀️

54richardderus
Oct 14, 3:07 pm

*smoochiesmoochsmooch*

55Familyhistorian
Oct 16, 4:15 pm

Happy new thread, Kim! Nice to see (well, not really as I missed the photo) that you had a Powell's meet up and were good and used credits towards new books.

56LovingLit
Oct 17, 4:29 pm

Hey Kim- how is your RL bookclub #2 October read going? (Frankenstein)

I am still part way through but have to admit it is easier to read and more interesting to me now that I am up to the section where the 'monster' gets to say his piece.

57Berly
Edited: Oct 18, 4:33 pm

Sorry everyone. Life has been a lot. My Dad fell when he got back to FL and wound up in the hospital, then back to rehab at his retirement village, then evacuate for hurricane #1, then he fell again and hit his head, back to the hospital, back to rehab, evacuate for hurricane #2, back to rehab. Unfortunately, all of this head trauma and moves has him really confused. My brother just flew down to see him in person and he's not doing well. We have to figure out where to move him now because his independent living apartment is no longer an option. I am so sad because he was doing pretty well when we all saw him in late August. Undecided whether it will be Assisted Living or Memory Care and whether still in FL or move him closer to one of us kids. SO last weekend was spent checking out retirement villages here. Did find one we (my sister and I) like, but they do not currently have an opening. #1 on the wait list.

In addition, I am still busy with tutoring (7 students); the Literary Arts Book Festival is November 2nd and I am heavily involved with that; still assisting in TKD classes and I am also filling in several times a week this month in the TKD office while my friend visits her kids around the country. Also son had nose surgery.

Way too much!!!

Thank you for keeping my thread warm in my absence. I miss being here. xoxo

On the fun side, I saw Amy Tan speak and her talk was amazing!! One of the best author lectures I have seen. It should be available on the Literary Arts thread in a month or two after they edit it and get it up.

Re-reading Frankenstein was really interesting and my book club had a great discussion. Sooooo different from the movies. Totally enjoyed it. Major beefs with how both Dr Frankenstein and the Monster behaved, but no surprise there. ; )

Also read The Librarianist which I found really disappointing. I have liked two of DeWitt's other books, but in this one, the sections felt unrelated and there were several plot points I found unbelievable. I have nothing against a quiet, introverted reader (obviously), but the book kept claiming he was happy and I didn't think he was. Other people have liked this one a lot more than I did so....

And I have made lots of Halloween cookies. : ) In my office, the kids got to each put a bat up on the wall and some decorations on the glass door. They loved it! And my Mr. Pumpkin Head has a new costume every week. So far s/he's been a vampire, a ghost, and is now a princess. Next week will be a pirate.

58quondame
Oct 18, 5:12 pm

>57 Berly: I hope you quickly find a new place where your father will be comfortable and you will feel comfortable about his care.

59jessibud2
Oct 18, 5:32 pm

It's soooo difficult when they are far away and you can't monitor on a regular basis. Bringing him closer to you guys is a good idea, just wishing logistics were easier.

{{hugs}}

Don't forget to breathe!

60Ameise1
Oct 19, 6:46 am

Oh Kim, I'm so sorry to read about your dad's health. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that you find a good solution soon. These are such stressful moments. I hope that you can always find short moments for yourself. I'm sending lots of positive thoughts. 😘💖

61lauralkeet
Oct 19, 7:04 am

Kim, I'm very sorry about your dad. He's been through a lot, as have you and your sibs. I hope new care arrangements come together soon both for your dad's needs and the family's peace of mind. Wishing you the best during this tough time.

62richardderus
Oct 19, 7:43 am

>57 Berly: That's very sad about dad's situation...Florida really doesn't sound like a viable option any longer.

I hope the family gets together on a good decision soon, so your stress levels can return to normal. "Happy" for your great Tan experience! *jealous mumbles*

63SirThomas
Oct 19, 9:17 am

Sorry to hear about yor about dad's situation, Kim.
My thougts are with you and your family.

64RebaRelishesReading
Oct 19, 11:41 am

>57 Berly: "Way too much!!!" -- I think so!! So sorry to hear about your Dad and hope you find a good place for him soon. #1 on waiting list is too bad though (at least I've heard much worse)

I saw Amy Tan interviewed on TV recently and think it was much like her talk "on the road". It was very interesting.

How nice that you're making your office a fun place for the visiting kids. Sounds like you're a Halloween fan.

You're also a strong woman and I'm sure you'll make it through all of this OK even though I know it's difficult and no fun at all. Sending as much MOJO as possible southward.

65atozgrl
Oct 19, 9:25 pm

>57 Berly: Kim, I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. It really is too much! I hope for all of you that new arrangements can come together soon. I know how difficult it is, as we went through similar problems with my mom 9 years ago. It's so stressful. As >64 RebaRelishesReading: said, #1 on the wait list is not bad. I hope something might open up there soon for you. Sending you lots of (((((hugs)))))!

66Berly
Oct 20, 2:50 pm

>58 quondame: Exactly! Thank you. : )

>59 jessibud2: Thank you for your understanding. And the remainder to breath.

>60 Ameise1: Positive thoughts much appreciated!

67Berly
Oct 20, 2:52 pm

>61 lauralkeet: Thanks. I need those positive thoughts. xoxo

>62 richardderus: It was really nice to have Amy Tan to look forward to in the midst of everything else going on. Smooch.

>63 SirThomas: Thank you Thomas.

68Berly
Edited: Oct 20, 3:04 pm

>64 RebaRelishesReading: >65 atozgrl: #1 on the wait list is the next best thing to being in, but who knows how long the wait will be?

Thanks for the hugs!!

69BLBera
Oct 20, 2:55 pm

Hey TwinK! Sorry to hear about your dad. It would be great if he could be closer to you. Hugs.

70Berly
Edited: Oct 21, 3:17 am

My Dad just is not steady anymore and hates being in a wheel chair. He fell yet again. Another hospital visit and then back to rehab. MRI tomorrow which should tell us if he had a stroke, but that doesn't tell us how to care for him. And we still don't know if he should go to Assisted Living or Memory Care...we need to figure out his new norm. 24-7 care is exorbitantly expensive. Sigh. Talking with siblings again prob on Tuesday after test results.

On the bright side, I spent yesterday at a TKD tournament (just as a spectator) and saw a bunch of friends and my old master, Master Hong, and his wife and two kids. And daughter S came with me and I got to introduce her to everyone. She is no longer practicing, but she is a black belt too. It was lots of fun.

And then I met up with Hubby and my middle daughter and my son at a pumpkin farm. We took a hay ride, and found our way out of the corn maze, ate some yummy food and brought back some fun decorations and caramel popcorn. Yay!

71Berly
Oct 20, 3:01 pm

>69 BLBera: Hi Twin! Yes, it would. Not sure how we could get him out here physically. It would be a real challenge. But we'll see....

72Berly
Edited: Oct 20, 4:18 pm

Okay, starting How Music Works by David Byrne...



The Rock-and-Roll Hall of Fame inductee and co-founder of Talking Heads presents a celebration of music that offers insight into the roles of time, place and recording technology, discussing how evolutionary patterns of adaptations and responses to cultural and physical contexts have influenced music expression throughout history and culminated in the 20th century's transformative practices.

73ChrisG1
Oct 20, 3:13 pm

>72 Berly: That book has been sitting on my shelf for years - I keep meaning to read it & never get to it....

74Berly
Oct 20, 4:11 pm

You could read it now?!?! : )

75Berly
Oct 20, 4:16 pm

Also starting an appropriate title for October...The Ghost Cat by Alex Howard.



12 decades, 9 lives, 1 cat Early morning, 1902. In a gloomy Edinburgh tenement, Eilidh the charlady tips coal into a fire grate and sets it alight. Overhearing, a cat ambles over to curl up against the welcome heat. This is to be the cat's last day on earth. But he is going to return... as The Ghost Cat, a spirit-feline destined to live out his ghostly existence according to the medieval proverb of "The Cat with Nine Lives" - For Three He Plays, For Three He Strays, For Three He Stays. Follow The Ghost Cat as he witnesses the changes of the next two centuries as he purrs, shuffles and sniffs his way through the fashion, politics and technological advances of the modern era alongside the ever-changing inhabitants of an Edinburgh tenement. As we follow our new spirit-feline friend, this unique story unearths some startling revelations about the mystery of existence and the human condition and provides a feel-good read full of charm for any fan of history, humour and fur-ridden fun.

76Berly
Oct 20, 11:30 pm

Tea Bag Quote: Always read something that will make you look good if you die in the middle of reading it.

LOL.

77banjo123
Oct 21, 12:11 am

Hi Kim, so sorry about your dad. I hope you can move him somewhere appropriate, very soon.

78Ravenwoodwitch
Oct 21, 12:54 am

>57 Berly: oh my gosh that all sounds so awful. I'm sorry you've had to deal with all that
I hope things get better, somehow.

And I agree on Frankenstien. I've read the original twice and a Manga version, and the actual story has been SO LOST thanks to Hollywood.

(And the fact that a female author, who wrote one of the first entries in horror/science fiction genre is getting overlooked, which makes me extra spicy).

At any rate, saw the other post too and I wish you and your family the best in finding the new normal for your dad.

79vancouverdeb
Oct 21, 1:21 am

Sorry to read about your dad. I'm glad you have siblings to help decide what to do. Best wishes. I also found The Librarianistvery disappointing. I love his book The Sisters Brothers, so it was a disappointment indeed. The Ghost Cat sounds like fun read, Kim.

80richardderus
Oct 21, 10:30 am

>76 Berly: Words to live by, along with "erase your cookies before you go."

*smooch*

81RebaRelishesReading
Oct 21, 11:49 am

>70 Berly: So glad you had a fun day in the midst of dealing with deciding about and finding care for your Dad. I know you'll find the strength to deal with it but it certainly isn't easy. ((Kim))

82BLBera
Oct 21, 2:51 pm

>70 Berly: Sounds like fun, TwinK!

>76 Berly: Love it!

I heard DeWitt speak last year about THe Librarianist and he just didn't convince me. I will give it a pass.

83ChrisG1
Oct 21, 3:18 pm

>74 Berly: Lol - I know, right? You should see my TBR list....

84johnsimpson
Oct 23, 3:22 pm

Hi Kim my dear, so sorry to hear about your Dad's health issues, it is so sad that this has happened when he seemed to be doing so well. I am sure that you and your sister will make the right decision for him, his confidence has certainly taken a big knock and at that age, it is not good.

Apart from what's happening with your dad, you are a very busy bee my dear, it makes me seem sloth like in comparison. We both send love and hugs to you and your family my very dear friend.

85EBT1002
Oct 31, 11:45 am

Happy Halloween, my friend. I know you and your family celebrate this one with great gusto.

I'm enjoying The Ghost Cat so far. About to start the 1942 chapter.

I'm in the apparently large group of readers who were disappointed by The Librarianist. The Sisters Brothers was SO good!!

86curioussquared
Oct 31, 5:15 pm

Sorry to hear about your dad, Kim :( That sounds really tough to navigate. I hope you and your siblings find a solution that works for everyone.

87BLBera
Nov 1, 7:27 pm

I hope you had a fun Halloween!

88LovingLit
Nov 3, 6:23 pm

I'm sorry to hear about your father Kim :( It's hard when you worry about someone so much, and you can see they're not themselves. My dad hasn't been the same since his stroke nearly 2 years ago, he worries all this time and it makes me worry!

>72 Berly: looks interesting! My lovely other would read that I reckon (he pretty much only reads history and music biographies).

89BLBera
Nov 4, 1:39 am

I am anxious to hear about the Book Festival. I know you couldn't have had as much fun as we had last year. :)

90Berly
Edited: Nov 4, 2:22 am

I've been really sick lately. Another reason for my LT absence. And, as a result, didn't get to help setup or attend the Portland Book Festival this year. Major sadness. : ( This year has been a lot. And my dad is still not doing well. Had to up it to 24-7 nursing care in the rehab unit. He just keeps falling and now he is having a hard time getting any words out at all. Sigh. Sibling talk on Monday or Tuesday to strategize.

I did get antibiotics and Prednisone, so finally feeling a little better today.

And I previously got two new books:


Every Brain Needs Music by Larry Sherman and Dennis Plies

and


American Salvation: How Immigrants Made America Great by Gregg Cooley

Excited to read both of them!!

91PaulCranswick
Nov 4, 6:16 am

>90 Berly: Sorry to hear that you have been under the weather, Kimmers, but glad that you seem to be on the mend.

92Ameise1
Nov 4, 7:11 am

Feel better soon. 🍯🫖

93jessibud2
Nov 4, 7:12 am

>90 Berly: - So sorry about all the stresses. They always seem to come together, don't they? Kim, does your dad have a wheelchair? If not, it sounds to me like he needs one, especially if he has 24/7 care, he shouldn't be walking; that would help eliminate falls. {{hugs}}. Believe me, I know how difficult all this is, especially from such a distance. Please take care of yourself - that is also very important!

94msf59
Nov 4, 7:29 am

Sorry to hear about your health issues, Kim and the continuing difficulties with your father. I hope things improve on both ends. 🙏

We sure miss seeing you around.

95ffortsa
Nov 4, 9:14 am

Oh, so sorry you are ill. And that you missed the Portland Book Festival, because I know you take such delight in it each year. Here's to a fast and complete recovery.

96alcottacre
Nov 4, 9:33 am

I hope you feel better soon, Kim! I also hope that the strategy session about your father goes well.

97LyndaInOregon
Nov 4, 12:43 pm

Healing thoughts going out to you, for your health, and to your whole family as you deal with your dad's care needs.

There's not much practical advice I can offer on the latter, except to say I've been through it (with my mom), and may be beginning it (with DH), and it's a road no one wants to walk. You are fortunate to have sibling support. Remember to be kind to yourself, too, during this difficult journey.

98RebaRelishesReading
Nov 4, 2:53 pm

>90 Berly: So sorry you're having such a tough year, Kim. Sending virtual hugs and hopes that things get better.

99richardderus
Nov 4, 3:02 pm

>90 Berly: I'm glad you're well enough to come tell us the news, though I'm sure it's no fun to talk about it. Get to feelin' better soonest, smoochling.

100vancouverdeb
Nov 4, 3:03 pm

Sorry to read that you are not feeling well, Kim, and things are difficult for your dad. Wishing you the best.

101curioussquared
Nov 4, 3:06 pm

Sorry you're not feeling well and your dad isn't doing well either. Hugs

102BLBera
Nov 4, 6:09 pm

Feel better, TwinK. Hugs.

103EllaTim
Nov 4, 6:46 pm

Hi Kim! Wishing you and your father the best. I hope you manage to find a good place for him.

104Familyhistorian
Nov 6, 12:11 am

Sorry to hear about your Dad's health issues, Kim. Hope you and your siblings find a solution soon and that eases your stress and you feel better soon.

105figsfromthistle
Nov 6, 10:20 am

>70 Berly: I am sorry to hear about your father. Ageing in place is a difficult thing to do. Luckily you have siblings that can take turns. Hope you are able to come up with a solution.

The hay ride sounds like it was fun! I haven't done one of those since I was little.

>57 Berly: I also found The Librarianist disappointing. Every other book I read by him was great.

Hope the rest of your week goes well.

106SirThomas
Nov 6, 10:58 am

Feel better soon, Kim.
All the best for your family!

107banjo123
Nov 7, 7:22 pm

Feel better soon, Kim! I missed seeing you at the book fair.

108EBT1002
Nov 8, 11:30 am

I know we texted after the election, but just wanted to swing by your thread and say hello. xoxo

109AMQS
Edited: Nov 11, 1:51 pm

Hi Kim, I am thinking of you. I am sorry that you have been sick and so sorry to hear about your dad. This is so hard, isn't it? We're near the beginning of that journey with my dad... what's going to happen and what are we going to do about it? I hope you and your siblings can come up with a situation that suits everyone.

Thanks for the recommendation of The Ghost Cat - sounds really fun.

110The_Hibernator
Nov 13, 12:04 pm

Hopefully you feel better soon! I know what it's like to have a bad year, so I don't envy you.

111Berly
Nov 13, 10:04 pm

Hi everyone. I am currently down in Florida with my siblings. We are visiting my Dad, who is not doing well at all, and tomorrow we meet with his healthcare team to determine next steps. This sucks. But I am very grateful to be down here with my wonderful sister and brother. Would hate to have to go through this by myself. Dad definitely cannot return to Independent Living, so we are trying to go through stuff and purge a bit. We were hoping for Memory Care, but it's looking more like hospice. We'll see...

112PaulCranswick
Nov 13, 10:28 pm

>111 Berly: Thank you, Kimmers, for updating us. I will keep you and your Dad in my thoughts and prayers. xx

113elorin
Nov 13, 11:34 pm

>111 Berly: I have your family in my thoughts as you navigate this tough time.

114EBT1002
Nov 13, 11:45 pm

I'm glad your siblings are there with you, Kim.

Sending you hugs....

115BLBera
Nov 14, 12:38 am

Oh Twin! I am so sorry. I am glad you have your brother and sister with you. Hugs.

116Ameise1
Nov 14, 2:09 am

My thoughts are with you and yours. Glad to hear that you're togheter with your siblings.

117lauralkeet
Nov 14, 7:03 am

Thinking of you, Kim. I'm glad you're not handling all this by yourself. You're right: it sucks.

118katiekrug
Nov 14, 7:29 am

I'm so sorry, Kim. Hang in there.

119ffortsa
Nov 14, 10:46 am

Oh dear. Memory care or hospice. Very difficult choices, especially at a distance.

I assume you and your siblings don't live close together. One of my friends and his siblings do a rotating visit schedule, I think once a month from New York and Pennsylvania to Florida, to visit their mother. But that is not cross-country, which would be exhausting for you. I hope your father's accommodation, whichever it is, is comfortable for him.

120jessibud2
Nov 14, 2:06 pm

I am happy to hear that you are together to deal with this next step. I can tell you from experience, it is not easy to deal with this alone, especially long-distance.

You are wise to be purging whatever you can now, so it doesn't all land on you at once, when time might also be a factor.

Continued hugs and strength...

121atozgrl
Nov 14, 4:11 pm

>111 Berly: "Not doing well at all." That sounds so familiar, what I was telling people when my DH and I were dealing with my mom. I am so sorry you are having to go through this, but so glad that you have the support of your sister and brother at this difficult time. Sending you my thoughts and prayers, and many ((((hugs)))).

122RebaRelishesReading
Nov 15, 1:59 pm

I'm so sorry, Kim. I know it's a tough time for all of you but glad you and your siblings can be there for each other. You'll all be in my thoughts.

123ChrisG1
Nov 15, 2:21 pm

We dealt with the same decision for my mother several years ago. It's heartbreaking to see them suffer the decline. Memory care was certainly necessary in her case, which moved to hospice (withing the memory care unit) toward the end. Bless you, Kim.

124banjo123
Nov 17, 9:05 pm

Hi Kim, so sorry about your dad. Sending hugs!

125Berly
Nov 17, 10:55 pm

So, I was lucky enough to get down to FL in time to be with my Dad. He passed yesterday.

126PaulCranswick
Nov 18, 12:33 am

>125 Berly: Dear Kimmers, I am so sorry to see your news. Deepest condolences to you and your family on the passing of your Dad.
Lots of hugs from your pal in Kuala Lumpur.

127quondame
Nov 18, 1:12 am

>125 Berly: My condolences to you and to all who loved him.

128Ameise1
Nov 18, 2:40 am

Dear Kim, my deepest sympathy. I am thinking of you and yours. 💖😘

129lauralkeet
Nov 18, 5:55 am

I'm so very sorry, Kim. Take care.

130jessibud2
Nov 18, 6:53 am

{{Kim}}. So much for you this year. Good that you were able to be there but now, please take care of yourself. {{hugs}}

131vancouverdeb
Edited: Nov 18, 7:08 am

I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss. I'm glad you had the chance to see your dad before he passed.

132SirThomas
Nov 18, 8:25 am

My condolences to you and your family!

133katiekrug
Nov 18, 9:10 am

I'm so sorry, Kim. My condolences to you and your family.

134BLBera
Nov 18, 9:26 am

Hugs, TwinK. I am so sorry to hear about your dad.

135foggidawn
Nov 18, 11:19 am

Sorry for your loss.

136AMQS
Nov 18, 12:17 pm

Oh Kim, I am so sorry for your loss.

137Ravenwoodwitch
Nov 18, 12:20 pm

Oh kim, I'm so sorry about your dad. My condolences and thoughts are with you :(

138RebaRelishesReading
Nov 18, 1:42 pm

Hugs, Kim!! Glad you got to see your father recently. Hang on to your memories and be kind to yourself.

139curioussquared
Nov 18, 1:58 pm

I'm so sorry, Kim. I'm glad you made it to Florida in time to be with him. Sending love ❤️

140ffortsa
Nov 18, 4:31 pm

Oh Kim. It must be so good to have seen him this last time. My heartfelt condolences to you and your siblings and the whole family.

141figsfromthistle
Nov 18, 7:26 pm

>125 Berly: I am so sorry. My deepest condolences to you and your family ((hugs))

142richardderus
Nov 18, 7:36 pm

>125 Berly: My dear Kim. I'm so very sad with you for your family's loss, and so very glad you were there with him.

I send hugs to you.

143LyndaInOregon
Nov 18, 8:45 pm

Your father is at peace. Treasure your memories of him, and give yourself permission to grieve. ((((Hugs))))

144elorin
Nov 18, 9:11 pm

May joyful memories reign as you grieve and cope with the new reality. I'm glad you got to see him once again.

145banjo123
Nov 18, 11:10 pm

Oh, I am so sorry, Kim. I am glad that you got to be with him. (((hugs)))

146charl08
Nov 19, 1:17 am

Thinking of you Kim and your family with all my sympathy.

147msf59
Nov 19, 7:52 am

I am so sorry to hear about your Dad's passing, Kim. I am so glad you were able to see him beforehand. Gentle ((hugs)) from your pal.

148drneutron
Nov 19, 2:17 pm

So sorry for your loss, but am glad you were able to get there to see him again.

149atozgrl
Nov 20, 1:00 pm

Kim, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. But very glad that you were able to get to Florida in time to be with him. My condolences to you and all of your family at this difficult time. Sending ((((hugs)))).

150LovingLit
Nov 20, 8:25 pm

Hi Kim- what a tough time. I really feel for you. I know you might not be on here for a while, but when you do, you will know that we are all here for you and thinking of you. (((hugs)))

151SandDune
Nov 21, 1:42 pm

>125 Berly: So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you.

152MickyFine
Nov 24, 11:18 am

I'm so sorry for your loss, Kim. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

153Berly
Edited: Nov 24, 10:00 pm

Thank you all for your kind messages. I love this group so much!!!

We celebrated Thanksgiving yesterday and it was so nice to celebrate with out-of-town relatives and we raised a toast to my Mom and Dad. Rough losing both of them in the same year. Definitely some tears, but mostly lots of laughter and good food.

Tomorrow and Tuesday I have my regular schedule of tutoring and, in addition, I have 1/2 hour Conference Sessions with each of the families. Spent today making notes and finding documents to talk about with the parents.

Then I have Wednesday - Sunday off. Hoping to spend some time here!! : )

xoxoxoxoxox

154AMQS
Nov 24, 10:02 pm

xoxoxoxoxox right back at you. I've been thinking about you. How nice to have a Thanksgiving with family, even or maybe especially after such difficult losses.

155BLBera
Nov 24, 11:39 pm

>153 Berly: You have had a tough year, Twink. Hugs.

156lauralkeet
Nov 25, 5:36 am

Hi Kim, your Thanksgiving-with-relatives sounds like a great way to remember your mom & dad. It can be tough to get back into work after a time like this. I hope it's manageable for you and that the rest of the week is restorative.

157RebaRelishesReading
Nov 25, 5:42 pm

2024 is turning out to be a tough year for a lot of people I think. Sounds like you're doing the right, healing things for the holidays though. Lots of hugs coming your way.

158richardderus
Nov 25, 6:31 pm

Enjoy the time away from your work. *smooch*

159witchyrichy
Nov 28, 9:15 am

Sending lots of love and healing energies to you! Take time for yourself when you can.

160Berly
Nov 28, 3:49 pm



To those of my LT family that celebrate -- happy feasting!! And Happy Thursday to everyone else! LOL

I actually celebrated on Saturday with extended family. We raised a toast to those we've lost and celebrated those still here. It was a lot of fun and very yummy. Today is take two, with some leftovers and a new round of stuffing and yam soufflé. : )

161Familyhistorian
Nov 28, 8:02 pm

So sorry to see the news about your father, Kim. My condolences to you and your family.

It's comforting for family to gather together at times like these. Enjoy your second Thanksgiving!

162PaulCranswick
Nov 28, 9:33 pm

In difficult times we have to be thankful for:
Friends and friendship
Books and readers.
This special group
Our loved ones near and far.

Thinking about you, Kimmers, this holiday period.

163LyndaInOregon
Nov 28, 11:18 pm

>160 Berly: Not that I'm in a food coma or anything, but I definitely read "yarn" soufflé instead of "yam" soufflé. As a knitter, I was immediately on alert and wondering if I could get rid of some of this Red Heart Super Saver that way.

164Ravenwoodwitch
Dec 1, 11:48 am

Happy Thanksgiving, Kim. Late, but better than never, lol.

165Whisper1
Dec 1, 10:42 pm

Dear Friend

Please forgive my delay in reading your thread. I am so sorry that your dad passed away in November, but glad you had a support base of your family to help get you through.

Much Love!

166EllaTim
Dec 2, 7:00 am

Hi Kim. I just now read your news of your Dad passing. I’m so sorry, my condolences. Glad that you had a Thanksgiving with extended family. It’s so good to have those around you at such a difficult time.

167tymfos
Dec 2, 7:14 pm

Oh, Kim, I'm behind in threads, but just read what you've been through the past month and of the loss of your father. I'm so sorry! I'm glad you could be with extended family for Thanksgiving and share remembrances. I wish you peace in this new month and coming year.

168Berly
Dec 5, 7:45 pm

I am down in Florida cleaning out my dad's condo and his Celebration of Life is this Saturday. It's a bit rough, but so many people have told us how much they loved my parents, so that's been nice.

Thank you for all your kind messages. : )

I just need to get through this...

169lauralkeet
Dec 6, 6:11 am

>168 Berly: I just need to get through this...
You can do it, Kim. Hearing others express their love is one way to "celebrate" their lives, and is such a comfort.

170RebaRelishesReading
Dec 7, 12:50 pm

Sending you warm thoughts. Don't beat yourself up and remember that grieving is a process. You're a strong woman and will be fine in the end. Hugs.

171elorin
Dec 7, 6:55 pm

Sending you strength to get through this.

172richardderus
Dec 7, 8:27 pm

>168 Berly: {{{Kim}}}

173LovingLit
Dec 10, 4:52 pm

More (((hugs))) your way, Kim.

174figsfromthistle
Dec 11, 7:45 pm

Dropping on to say hello and send many hugs your way

175bell7
Dec 11, 9:38 pm

Hugs to you, Kim, and hope the Celebration of Life brought both laughter and healing tears in the remembrances.

176richardderus
Dec 18, 4:02 pm

Weekly drive-by *smooch*

177richardderus
Dec 20, 9:49 pm

Solstice cheer, Berly-boo!

178PaulCranswick
Dec 22, 7:25 pm

Missing you Kimmers!

179Berly
Dec 22, 11:14 pm

Hi everyone! Back in Oregon, on break from my dyslexia tutoring for two weeks while the kids are off from school, held our annual cheese tasting parties, and madly trying to get all my shopping down for Christmas!! I haven't posted much lately, but I am almost ready to break 100 in books. Can't wait for 2025 -- it had better be an easier year. : ) I'll try to catch up a little over break and I am eager to start a new thread. Hugs to you all!! And Happy Holidays!!

180PaulCranswick
Dec 23, 12:01 am

>179 Berly: Would you call a break dyslexia training a spell away? (sorry if it isn't so punny!).

181Berly
Dec 23, 1:15 am

You are so punny!!! Thanks. I needed that. : )

182BLBera
Dec 23, 9:13 am

Enjoy your break and the holidays! See you next year!

183Berly
Dec 23, 11:17 pm

Hi TwinB! So, in addition to the holiday hoopla, my Hubby is moving offices...by Jan 1!!! Looking forward to Christmas and then 2025 cannot get here soon enough! : )

184msf59
Dec 24, 8:22 am

Merry Christmas, Kimmers. Have a wonderful holiday with the family. Hoping for a much better 2025 for you. 🙏

Congrats on a 100 books! Yah!

185Ameise1
Dec 24, 9:42 am

I wish you and your loved ones a happy and blessed festive season.

186SandDune
Dec 24, 10:09 am

Nadolig Llawen, Happy Christmas and Happy Holidays!

187AMQS
Dec 24, 4:43 pm

Winslow and all of us wish you a very happy holidays! I'll be thinking about you - you've been through a lot this year.

188johnsimpson
Dec 24, 4:44 pm

189PaulCranswick
Dec 25, 12:37 am



Thinking of you at this time, Kimmers.

190LovingLit
Dec 25, 2:56 am

>180 PaulCranswick: >181 Berly: LOL- that was a couple of good ones, Paul

Hi Kim. I hope you got all your Christmas shopping done. As usual, I am extremely organised up to a point, and then it all falls apart. However, I made it in the end. And the kids were happy, which is a mother's main goal, right?
Happy Christmas, even though this will no doubt be a tough one for you and the family.

191Carmenere
Dec 25, 6:48 am

Merry Christmas, Kim!

192RebaRelishesReading
Dec 25, 1:51 pm

>179 Berly: Merry Christmas, Kim. I totally agree with you that 2024 was a tough one -- here's to better days for everyone!!

193Whisper1
Dec 25, 7:25 pm



I hope you had a wonderful day!

195karenmarie
Dec 26, 2:58 pm

Hi Kim!

I have absolutely no chance of getting caught up, so will simply say that I look forward to being a better LT friend next year.

196Berly
Dec 27, 2:35 pm



Happy Holidays to all my LT Friends!! xoxo

197Berly
Dec 27, 9:41 pm

New thread, new start...here!

https://www.librarything.com/topic/366837

198alcottacre
Yesterday, 9:51 am

Happy New Year, Kim! Off to check out the new thread. . .